The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread...

[actual]

Sounds like you need more gear.

[Iommic Pope]

Ugh.
My wife and I had a conversation about where we want to steer this ship last night, what "ideal" would look like etc. She mentioned she'd like to lose weight and get fit (which she really needs to amd she knows it) and it was really refreshing to hear her arrive at that point.
Before, as she was leaving for work, I made some offhand and stupid jokes about the cat being fat (which, it is) and then used things we'd said last night against me, like I'm some kind of complete bastard.

Fuck it, I'm just not saying things anymore.

[jrfox92]

Fuck it, I'm just not saying things anymore.

Yep, this.

[Invisible Man]

A campus safety guy collapsed earlier today. I was the second one there...used a defib and gave him CPR. He left in an ambulance a little while ago...not sure if they found a pulse before they strapped him in.

[Jwar]

A campus safety guy collapsed earlier today. I was the second one there...used a defib and gave him CPR. He left in an ambulance a little while ago...not sure if they found a pulse before they strapped him in.

Don't think too much about it man. I know that's hard to actually do, but you did what you could. I bet everyone is glad you knew how to do CPR and use a defib.

[Iommic Pope]

Iman, make sure you tick the box for debriefing on that incident report.
You did good.

Jr: tell me about it.
Its a much better policy..

[Aquietcabin1978]

I have this unshakable feeling that no one likes me. I mean, I know my father and step-mother and wife and dog all love me, but I don't think they like me. There's a difference. Like, no one wants to sit and talk about music or watch Forged In Fire or play video games with me. I can make acquaintances. I can be a smile and a handshake. I just want to take turns listening to songs with someone, be excited about things.

There's some way heavier shit going on in this thread but yo I can relate. It struck me the other day while sitting outside that I have zero friends. Not one aside from my wife and daughter. Don't get me wrong that is great an all. We moved to Illinois twelve years ago in our mid to late twenties and I guess it wasn't a priority then but it has been bothering me lately. My dad never really had any friends when I was younger and I thought that was sad as shit. How the fuck do you make friends when ur forty. Maybe it just happens.

RE: The divorce.

One of my daughters friends parents are splitting up and it has been ugly. Would it be weird for you to take the kid and your kid somewhere cool/nice for an afternoon Jwar? We have been inviting the kids friend for dinner, movies,etc. She has said she doesn't like to be at home, I would think it is a similar experience as they are the same age. These two have hung out since kindergarten so it's not weird or Whatever.

[chuckjaywalk]

I have this unshakable feeling that no one likes me. I mean, I know my father and step-mother and wife and dog all love me, but I don't think they like me. There's a difference. Like, no one wants to sit and talk about music or watch Forged In Fire or play video games with me. I can make acquaintances. I can be a smile and a handshake. I just want to take turns listening to songs with someone, be excited about things.

There's some way heavier shit going on in this thread but yo I can relate. It struck me the other day while sitting outside that I have zero friends. Not one aside from my wife and daughter. Don't get me wrong that is great an all. We moved to Illinois twelve years ago in our mid to late twenties and I guess it wasn't a priority then but it has been bothering me lately. My dad never really had any friends when I was younger and I thought that was sad as shit. How the fuck do you make friends when ur forty. Maybe it just happens.

RE: The divorce.

One of my daughters friends parents are splitting up and it has been ugly. Would it be weird for you to take the kid and your kid somewhere cool/nice for an afternoon Jwar? We have been inviting the kids friend for dinner, movies,etc. She has said she doesn't like to be at home, I would think it is a similar experience as they are the same age. These two have hung out since kindergarten so it's not weird or Whatever.

Yeah, I turn 38 in a few weeks and it hit me. Like, I can't even sit and chat about records with anyone.

[samzadgan]

Ugh.
My wife and I had a conversation about where we want to steer this ship last night, what "ideal" would look like etc. She mentioned she'd like to lose weight and get fit (which she really needs to amd she knows it) and it was really refreshing to hear her arrive at that point.
Before, as she was leaving for work, I made some offhand and stupid jokes about the cat being fat (which, it is) and then used things we'd said last night against me, like I'm some kind of complete bastard.

Fuck it, I'm just not saying things anymore.

Nah man...you gotta be honest...it may hurt sometimes, but both parties know its coming from a good place...and although at first it feels like shit hearing it, you process it and realise they were right.

[Iommic Pope]

Yeah the thing is, if you tell me something i dont want to hear about myself, I might be devo for a while, even spitting venom, but I'll probably calm the fuck down, reflect on it and try to change that at some point.
Apparently that does not apply to women.
Sorry ladies.
#popeisamisogynistbutweallknewthatanyway

[Iommic Pope]

You know what, fuck it.
Leta not have that conversation.
I'm sticking to not saying things.

[$harkToootth]

You know what, fuck it.
Let's not have that conversation.
I'm sticking to not saying things.

In light of the other thread...you know what you have to do...
watch SPACED! It will cheer you up!

[Iommic Pope]

I think I'm gonna be doing just that.

[samzadgan]

I think I'm gonna be doing just that.

or listen to some new Anaal Nathrakh and go in for more conversations!

[Iommic Pope]

Insert "why not both" meme here.